Topics: How Can I Tell If I'm a Loser?

This article was published to the Internet several years ago and was originally written to help identify "Losers" in relationships. The e-mail feedback I have received on the article has been tremendous. It's clear the article is a way of identifying not only "losers" but controlling, abusive, and manipulating individuals. It's also obvious these warning signs are not only found in dating relationships - but in our spouse, our parents, our friends, and our relatives. There are more victims in the environment of the Loser than his or her partner.

I've been contacted for help by the friends and loved ones of people involved in relationships with Losers (controlling and/or abusive partners). The loved ones want to understand the situation and ask for recommendations and guidance. For this group I have recently published "Love and Stockholm Syndrome: The Mystery of Loving an Abuser". A link to this article is found at the end of this page.

Obviously, this article has created the need for sequels. I hope to publish a guide to assist Losers who want to change their life and behavior. An article addressing sons and daughters who were parented by Losers is also being planned. If our parent or parents have the characteristics listed in this article, our ability to function as a healthy adult may be hindered due to the dysfunctional family/parent model. My goal is to follow this issue and provide help and guidance to all those involved with controlling and abusive individuals - from partners to extended victims.

John McCain has a LOSER’S LIMP.

That"s so funny cause this tweet sounds like a screaming baby

She still thinks I’m a loser btw

I"m such a loser. I literally just whispered to myself you make me happy to a snapchat of the boy I like.

Is everybody else just chillin relaxing home after all the food or is it just me being a loser and not out doing things with friends and such :/

Who cares hes a nobody in most every real canadian mind freakin loser.

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Chris Adonis, Caleb Konley, Laurel Van Ness, KM, and El Hijo del Fantasma vs Eddie Edwards, Fallah Bahh, Allie, Garza Jr., and Richard Justice in a 5 on 5 elimination tag match! Loser wears a turkey suit!

Really??? Sandwiches and fruit on Thanksgiving! One of your expensive chef"s, WE are paying for every weekend, could have made food for the Coast Guard!! Such a loser!!

Boy nailed it. He looks like a loser.

I feel sometimes that I have a boring life but then I remember that one of "s cousin know me as as her friend who always dances in her insta story so I don"t feel that lame anymore

Don"t you get it? I"m a loser! I lost my job, my home, everything!